Just because your going clubbing doesn’t mean you have to dress like a skank (not saying there’s anything wrong with that because I occasionally do it too… but just sayin’); you can look classy yet still sexy at the same time. Remember Victoria Beckham’s golden rule?
“I always think if you’re revealing lots of cleavage, you should have your legs hidden. Or if you want to show some leg, wear a jumper dress on top. Don’t let it all hang out; it’s much sexier to leave a little to the imagination.”
I try to plan my clubbing outfits but it always ends up being a big fat fail because I can’t just buy a dress and it’s done, so I end always throwing things together last minute and experiment what looks good with what… which is why I’m always in such a rush before going out. Sometimes I usually concentrate on my two favorite things: accessories and make up, whereas the outfit is secondary and chosen to match the two because I like to buy basics.
Wear a simple outfit and dress it up with bold accessories and a pair of nice shoes. Shiny leggings are an option but they’re hot and I love them! I also think that wearing all neutral colors and having one accessory as a splash of color looks great.
Match colors that goes well together but try not to choose more than three (FYI, black, white, gold and silver will go with almost any color).
If you’re going to wear an outfit with funky prints and/or lots of colors, then keep everything else simple and neutral.
If your going to show-off your legs, wear a looser and more flowy dress or tone down the cleavage. Also, remember Sarah Jessica Parker’s studded belt in the Sex in the City movie? It can go with almost everything!
If your going to show cleavage, cover up the legs! Try layering your necklaces to draw attention to your bust and not look like a complete slut (since the necklaces will cover some of it) and play around with accessories like leather gloves, hats and/or ties.
The little black dress is extremely versatile but could be a little plain on it’s own. Create some edge with some strappy studded heels or how about throwing on some vintage-inspired jewelry? Cocktail rings are hot and I can’t get enough of them!
You don’t always have to wear mini-skirts just because every other girl is. There is nothing wrong with a dress that goes past your mid-thighs; you’ll be the most glamorous girl in the club!
You don’t always have to dress up and go all out with the accessories if that’s not your thing. What about keeping things simple with a pair of jeans, a tank top and minimal jewelry. You’ll still look chic and put together. Also, when in doubt, a small black clutch will go with any outfit.
Also…
- Save your money and don’t buy a new outfit every time. Wearing the exact same outfit but changing the accessories can give you a completely new look.
- When accessorizing, there is such thing as too much! I would say wear no more than 3-4 major accessories that really stand out.
- If: it’s that time of the month, you get bloated from drinking or you’re just not use to sucking in, don’t wear something like a skin-tight tube mini-dress. Also, wear stuff that FIT you if you’re going to wear something skin-tight. “Thong-bulges” are nasty. Sorry, NOT attactive.
- If you dress like a whore and are attracting attention from guys because of that, they are obviously not guys you want to date anyway. There are many definitions of “sexy” nowadays and having your T&A hanging out doesn’t have to be one of them.
- There’s nothing wrong with wearing a tiny dress but if you accessorize it right, it’ll look more than a slutty piece of cloth.
Ultimately, you decide what you want to wear and these are just guidelines I set for myself. Remember, classy and sophisticated earns you respect while skanky just earns you “mysterious” pills dropped into your drink. Don’t be afraid to wear something funky and different— going to a club doesn’t mean you have to wear a mini-skirt like every other girl in there.
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jen
April 6th, 2009 |
Amen sister!
Love the tips. I had that feeling this past weekend about grls getting the attention that wear. Or act slutty. Its the wrong kind of attention. I respect the classy chicks way more!
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Katy
April 6th, 2009 |
Yeah me too! I’ve been meaning to write this post for a while and I finally did because I was bored.
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ice-lolly
April 6th, 2009 |
I agree with your suggestions. I usually try to balance out the boobage/legs conflict – though, before, I admit, the girls that did let everything hang out on the dance floor made me feel “overdressed” in my jeans and low-cut top. Insane, I know.
I’m growing wary of the clubbing scene these days.
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Katy
April 7th, 2009 |
Me too! I use to feel overdressed but now I don’t care… besides I love my jeans! &hearts
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Ms Constantine
April 7th, 2009 |
Definitely not into making friends with girls who look like they’re out to pick up a “client”. It’s like the old make up rule, lips or eyes, not both.
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Katy
April 7th, 2009 |
Hahaha I don’t mind it too much as long as it’s not me dressing skanky all the time.
My girlfriends does too sometimes but I think they look hot so as long as their not doing actual slutty stuff at clubs then I won’t judge. Everyone chooses what they wear and I just choose to be more conservative I guess.
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yumeko
April 7th, 2009 |
i looove this post cos it all makes sense
i for one love to wear very comfortable clothes to a club
this is because i tend to be very slobby or comfortable when drunk
like i will sit with my legs on my chair etc
and its not a good look in skintight or short clothes hahaha
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rikuka
April 7th, 2009 |
Great tips!!
I love all of the outfits & accessories you put together.
& thank you for saying it [wear clothes that fit you]
I hate seeing girls twice my size wearing the same size as me -_-” Maybe it’s bcus I used to work at Victoria’s Secret, but I can’t stand seeing the lining of panties & bras through girls clothes. grossss!
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Thao
April 7th, 2009 |
Hmm I haven’t gone to the club yet. I was going to go last summer but my lame friends bailed out on me. Maybe this summer and maybe with better clubbing friends.
All the outfits look awesome and I think my favorite one is the second to last one – the gold glamor one. It’s sooo pretty!! I love the dress.
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Katy
April 7th, 2009 |
It’s okay, you’re not missing out too much. Clubbing is fun once in a while but it gets old… I don’t understand how people do it every week! Plus I’d rather be healthy than consume that much alcohol. I think I’m growing into an anal old lady at 21.
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camerafilmroll
April 7th, 2009 |
The first outfit is something I’d want to wear, with tons of silverware/gold accessories please! (:
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Kym
April 7th, 2009 |
AGREEED! it sucks too when girls complain about this guy and that guy that was creepin’ on them and u look and what they’re wearing and wonder why?? haha!
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bhcheryl
April 7th, 2009 |
i loovvee love LOVE this post. i think its about time i go shopping and buy me some shiny leggings & studded strappy heels. .. oh & a purple bra haha lol.
I think I might just forward this post to a few ladies i know. hahaha. I use to promote/work for some clubs a few years back (im still only 21 but i havent gone clubbing in ages) and its interesting to see how people manage to fit into certain things.
P.S. I think the last two are my favorites
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Angelica
April 7th, 2009 |
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Katrina M
April 7th, 2009 |
absolutely great post!! great advice too!!!
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Les
April 7th, 2009 |
I wish I could get away with wearing about half of that… I can’t wear big heels, my feet hurt
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Katy
April 7th, 2009 |
Just go for lower heels… I find any heels under 3″ comfortable and anything over is only for those special occasions.
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MollyCake
April 7th, 2009 |
the debate rages on! love this post!!!
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Vanessa
April 7th, 2009 |
OMG all that stuff is to die for! I love the purple booties!
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Veronica
April 7th, 2009 |
Haha DAYMN
I haven’t been to a club in a couple years – when I lived in NYC I was out all the time!! But now, life is quieter and I need to make monies to make up for all the $$ I wasted in NY haha
I love metallics, though – I’m dying for some nice black boots and some dark silver leggings!
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Katy
April 8th, 2009 |
I’ve been eying the gold and silver leggings at American Apparel but I just walk away because I don’t think I can ever pull it off!
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Scott
April 7th, 2009 |
Yeah, having just a little bit of skin showing is (for me anyway) more attractive than a lot. Just enough but not too much if you will.
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Katy
April 8th, 2009 |
I agree. Your obviously not a sleazy guy, Scott (which is a good thing for your wife)! Lol.
I wonder how other guys feel too… it’d be interesting if there were more guys’ opinions on this.
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Kaylee
April 7th, 2009 |
I love those sets you created. Especially the two with the funky pattern and yellow dress! You’re probably the wisest hoe there is
Lmao @ “mysterious” pills! Scary.
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Katy
April 8th, 2009 |
“wisest hoe”
Ahahahah that’s hilarious! I like that!
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Trish (girlatgym)
April 8th, 2009 |
Love the tips! And some really fab clothes. Oh and the shoes!!! Covering up can be a good thing! What I also think is dumb is when it’s freezing cold out and women are walking around in next to nothing. Personally, I think you look like a dope when you do that – and super desperate. You can look cute and not have every inch of skin exposed. You look better, and more confident, when you don’t have to resort to walking around half naked to get attention. Show a little, but not everything.
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andhari
April 8th, 2009 |
I usually wear dresses.
I love the gold and the black dress you put up there 
So me.
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Tricia
April 8th, 2009 |
I loved this post, and I’m not even into fashion at all! (My daily wardrobe consists of jeans & my high school hoody. LOL) I think it’s because I don’t know what looks good for my shape. I can’t wear most of what you posted in the pics or else I’d look ridiculous, although I wish I could
Nearly-flat chest = no low-cut, cleavage showing tops. Chunky thighs & calves = no skirts, dresses, or skinny jeans. Sigh. No clubbing for me lol.
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lisa
April 8th, 2009 |
Haha great post! I love the outfit collages.
My go-to clubbing outfits tend to be a variation on your last collage or my blue Guess dress.
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Louise
April 8th, 2009 |
Okay I’m afraid to ask, but I must know: What’s a thong bulge?? I guess I’m fortunate enough not to have seen any b/c I can’t imagine what that would be.
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Katy
April 8th, 2009 |
It’s when your thong is too small for you and kinda creates a line in your skin / hips area and you can totally see if it someone is wearing something tight.
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Louise
April 8th, 2009 |
Oh hah. My dad calls those “muffins”.
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molly
April 8th, 2009 |
oops the comment I had before was suppose to be posted for this post. lol.
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Annie
April 9th, 2009 |
Haha, thong bulges. Definitely seen too many of those.
I love polyvore.
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angie519
April 11th, 2009 |
Hahha love this post! There are too many poorly dressed skanks out there
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Jessie
May 11th, 2009 |
All of the outfits are absolutely gorgeous. Just wish I could afford them.
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City Geisha
August 12th, 2009 |
Great article and well said too!
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Miss Fong
February 7th, 2010 |
Hi KoOty! I love the ‘classy hoe’ advice, lol. Your blog totally rocks! I hope you have a fab time in HK, it’s going to be sizzlin’ when you’re there!
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Richard
February 26th, 2010 |
My wife would looooove this post!
Agree with Scott & with the “legs or cleavage” rule.
But above all, I wanted to comment that all the shoes you picked up are definitely soooo sexy! Look natural wearing them and whatever the outfit, it’s a hit ;-)
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